This piece was started, but not
completed, prior to the predictable verdict in the George Zimmerman case,
which, while helping to create the impetus for thinking about the topic, is
only one example, and perhaps not the kind you think.
It seems to me that far too
many people in our society are focused on punishment, specifically punishing
someone (else) for perceived slights or injustices, or to somehow evening the
score as they see it being kept. People take it on themselves to hand out punishments to those others
they think have somehow avoided the appropriate consequences for actions that
violate some kind of code.
I admit that
it irks me when people seem to be getting away with something that I’m sure I
would be punished for, or that is self-centered or self-serving, to the
detriment of society. However, I’m much more likely to just shake my head and
move on than to decide it is somehow up to me dish out some kind of punishment.
I’m not so obsessed with rules (maybe because I had trouble following them
myself) that I feel any need to take on any enforcement responsibilities.
Mostly, though, I’m just not an angry guy.
Some religious leaders
reinforce their congregants’ anger by spending lots of time passing judgment on
those who have transgressed, in either major or minor ways. Inadvertently or
not, those leaders encourage their followers to take on the role of righteous
punishers themselves.
Politicians certainly
reinforce anger as a way to generate support from those who are frustrated at
the way things are going, be they bankers or welfare recipients (as either
perpetrators or victims, take your pick). When politicians talk about reform
(immigration, welfare, voter fraud, etc.) today, look closely at whom they are
trying to punish, because you won’t have to work hard to find their target.
Isn’t punishment what the
nasty divorces exemplify, one spouse getting revenge on the other however (s)he
can, including using the children or poisoning the parental well? Isn’t that
also really what passive-aggressive behavior manifests, punishing first, with an
explosion, and then rationalizing the outburst?
Looking at the Zimmerman
case, I wasn’t surprised at the jury’s decision (reasonable doubt is a tough
standard; just because you or I think someone
is guilty doesn’t make them so in the legal sense of the word). I didn’t follow
the case closely enough to know how I would have decided were I unfortunate
enough to have been selected for the jury. I don’t know who is guilty, or who
is at fault, and neither do you, because none of us were eyewitnesses. Even if I
had been an eyewitness to the tragedy, what I saw (and heard) would have been
colored by the prejudices I bring to the party.
I don’t know George
Zimmerman, but I’ve known too many people like him – Wanna-be cops, bullies
suffering from Chronic Outrage
Disorder.* That is my
prejudice. But Zimmerman is also one example of my point; he wanted, maybe even
needed, to punish someone, perhaps anyone, for what he saw as an ever-expanding
threat to life as he knew it. That doesn’t make him guilty, of course, nor does
it make Trayvon Martin innocent.
It does, however,
typify the problems created by the need of some people who feel it is their
duty, their prerogative, their right, to punish those who they believe are so
deserving. No matter whose story you believe, either partially or in its
entirety, either Zimmerman’s or Martin’s, one (or both) decided the other was
deserving of punishment. Ironically, whatever violent response to the verdict
may arise will be just another example of the punishment motive.
Punishment attitudes also
explain many cases of “road rage.” Because some other driver appears to be not following
the rules, and getting away with their “sin,” the self-appointed enforcer lets
his/her anger drive the need to punish. Such an attitude can also explain the
classroom teacher or administrator who becomes a bully, using
discipline not as a tool to maintain order but to punish a kid or kids who may or may not be deserving, but who represent all that is “wrong” with schools
or the world. These types, too, I have known.
How many have seen the
neighborhood or playground enforcer, yelling at kids (or even other adults)?
How about the frustrated parent who is driven to teach his/her kids lesson
after lesson through punishment? “I’ll teach you!” The level of anger often has
little relation to the gravity of the transgression, or perhaps even to the
transgressor.
I don’t object to
consequences for actions that cause disorder in or create danger to society.
Those consequences may involve punishments, from mild to severe, but those
consequences and punishments need to be administered by someone tasked with
that obligation and meted out to a specific miscreant, whether to one’s own
child by a parent or to a criminal by legal authorities (who follow codified
procedures), not by some self-appointed surrogate for misplaced anger or
aggression. Punishment is a tool, and like any tool, dangerous in untrained or unauthorized hands.
* My student-teaching cooperating teacher was one such
person. For fun he rode with the Moline Acres Police Department (think now
defunct St. George in South County) as an Auxiliary Officer in the evenings,
carried an expandable metal baton, and actually liked “Tree Duty” at McClure HS,
where we sat in his Dodge Charger (think Starsky & Hutch) with some kind of
snack taken from the cafeteria and did surveillance to catch kids smoking. I can not imagine a much worse way to spend time but he enjoyed both the catching and confrontation.
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